Don’t Be A Tree

In Order to Have Freedom, We Need Boundaries? WHAT!

Quite a paradox here eh? This topic has been coming up a lot especially due to politics, but I don't want to dive into that category. Instead, I broke down in simplest terms why we needs boundaries.
Let me know what you think!
 
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Weeding The Garden- Ep. 38

It is hard to realize that some friends just don't belong in your life. It isn't personal. It is just that some people are on "different books" than you are. It is not that anyone is better or above others. It is a natural part of life- but it can be very isolating.
Check this out as I speak about ideas and suggestions.
 
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I Could Have Had My Revenge...

As some of you may know, I had a rough year of teaching this year. My district and principal, did not support me in the slightest. I had evidence through emails and other media of them wrongly doing things. I was on my way to the meeting when I had a thought- "I don't want to become that person."
 
Call it the whiner, victim, or vengeful person. That doesn't do anything for me. Instead, I decided I wanted to take the tough path- the high road. In doing so, I opened new doors. Check it out!
 
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Do I play the game or not? 11th man Theory

In this episode I talk about the 11th man theory- which involves attracting a partner. This email comes to me as striking as I feel that people in my personal life are going through this exact same thing. It is destiny.
 
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Stop Putting Things on Pedestals...

It is one of the worst things that we can do to ourselves and others. Putting things above you or you above them can just cause friction. Here are the 5 reasons that I talk about:
1. Unrealistic Expectations
2. Dehumanization
3. Imbalance in Relationships
4. Stunted Personal Growth
5. Increased Risk of Betrayal or Resentment
 
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My 5th Graders are Hurting...

I write graduation letters to each of my kids and as I was proofreading them, I started to see a trend. Self-doubt was common through all of them. It is very sad to see. I think that we can recognize this with our own thinking and life. Why are we stuck? 
 
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Important Psychology Things You NEED To Hear

I have been studying psychology for a bit now and i am no expert, but I want to share some things with you that I KNOW will transform your relationships. It is simple people. Which is probably why it is so hard or not desirable. Take a listen and tell me what you think-
 
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Is it weird if I feel this way after 1 date?

What a great question! Totally justified and I know this may be a hot take, believe me, but what are you settling for? Maturity? Someone who knows what they want? Check it out and let me know your thoughts-
 
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My Conversations are going nowhere... is it me?

My best friend told me about a situation he just went through and I HAD to address this because I have answered many emails about this same thing. It feels as though we are horrible at talking to the opposite sex, but is it actually us? Or are there more factors going on? In this episode, I break it down and hopefully give you more clarity.
 
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I Hooked Up with My Roommate's Boyfriend... What Do I Do?

Talk about drama! Well, I gave some advice even though this emailer was more of the antagonist. It is easy to judge others, but we never know the full story. That being said, I cannot stand cheaters. Take a listen!
 
 
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